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The Fellas Respond: "My Husband's Ex Is So Disrespectful"

The fools J. Anthony Brown, Junior and Nephew Tommy sit in for Shirley Strawberry for the Strawberry Letter Live After Show to discuss the letter, "My Husband's Ex Is So Disrespectful." 

Take a look at what the fellas have to say from a male's perspective.

Dear Steve and Shirley,

My husband and I have been together for 13 years and we’ve been married for 5 years. Before we got married, we broke up for about a year and during that time, we dated other people. We got back together in 2010 and we swore that we cut ties with anyone from our past. I moved in with him and we got married.  Not long after our wedding, I found out that my husband was still communicating with an ex-girlfriend. This woman had the nerve to call our house and ask for him. I had words with her and she ended up hanging up on me. It’s been many years since that happened, but I figured my husband was still talking to her occasionally. I saw some interaction with them on social media, so I decided to call her and let her know that she needs to stop talking to my husband. She said that my husband was a good friend to her, but she would stop communicating with him if it would make me feel better. She also said that if I want my marriage to work, I need to stay out of my husband’s business. I was hot! Then she told me that she hoped I found a new job since I had just been laid off. Needless to say, I cursed her out and then hung up on her. Apparently, my husband tells this woman all of our business. I could not wait for him to get home so I could curse him out too. But get this, he came home and he was furious with ME! She had called him and told him everything. My husband told me not to ever call her again and he said that I cannot control who he's friends with. I was dumbfounded. Is he crazy? Shirley, I just have one question for you… Is my marriage over?

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