You Are A "Side" Dish, Not The Main Course

Let me start out by saying that this is a judgement free zone, but this particular Strawberry Letter had me giving the MAJOR side eye.

A woman wrote in to Shirley and Steve with the subject being "Nothing Is Free Over Here" to summarize her "relations" with a married man. Again, let's not judge because there are plenty of women out there who are a "side piece." The thing that was interesting about this letter is that she feels as though he should give her money gas, buy her groceries or even offer to pay her bills. You know those things you do for people that you are in an actual relationship. Her feelings are that if she's giving up the "goods," she shouldn't have to ask for anything.

Take a look:

You have to know your place when dealing with someone. Are you their "main thang" or an extra on the side? Girl, his wife is his main course and you are just a side dish. Now move over to the side until he's ready for a taste or get you a man who isn't married.

What do you think?

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