Dear Steve and Shirley,
I met a gentleman seven months ago. I'm 45 and he's 37 when we met he lived 3 hours away so he decided to move to my area. It's been four months now since we've been in the same city and I'm starting to see issues with him. He didn't have a plan in place when he moved to my city and now he's living in a shelter because I told him he cannot live with me. He doesn't have a car and I refuse to drive him around. He does have a job. In fact he's had three different jobs since he's been here. He has been fired from each job because he has an issue with the way people talk to him. See he has issues with being short. He's only 5 3. I am 5 2 so his height doesn't bother me but it bothers him. He has short patience with people. I believe he's been abused by a woman before because he always thinks I'm talking down to him and belittling him. I jokingly push these issues to the side but it's getting old. I'm getting to the point where I want to end this relationship. Can I help him overcome this? Or should I just let him work through his own problems alone? Please help.
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