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Don't Mess With My Man!

Hello Shirley and Steve,

 I'm 29. I'm a 29 year old Hispanic woman just recently married. I love my husband with all of my heart and soul. We've been together for going on two years married two months and we get along great. The problem is his son's mother. This woman has continually tried to cause my husband and our marriage problems. Now me being the woman that I am, I try to see it from both sides, but he is my husband and regardless of the things this woman does, he will continue to be my husband. We promised Till Death Do Us Part. I take my vows seriously but this woman calls my house and his cell phone all the time. Now I don't have a problem with this woman calling about their child, but the chick takes it one step further and asks about our other children. My husband's two daughters and my two children and personal issues that pertains to them as in their daycare and so on. She calls my husband cusses him out calls him all sorts of horrible names just stupid things calls me telling me she loves him but then calls him and tells him she hopes he dies in his sleep, has called him racial names. My husband is African-American in parentheses. Mind you this chick is white. Their son is mixed. Now I've had enough of this nonsense. I have already told my husband to check her. He has, but this crazy chick won't stop. What do I do now? I could be the girl I used to be a few years ago and deal with it on my own terms. I'm not trying to do that though. It's taken me a lot to grow into the woman that I have become, but when is enough enough? I don't disrespect my husband and even if I did. I know this much I'm not going to allow another woman to disrespect him. So what do I do? Just Married.

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