God wants to bless you, but you have to give Him something to bless. You can't just wait for life to happen to you, you have to happen to life.
Just as it says in the scripture, "faith without works is dead." How much effort are you putting forth to live your best life? What is your mindset? What steps are you taking? Are you just being active or are you being proactive? There is a major difference.
Take a listen as Steve Harvey explains what it means to be proactive in life.