I am a 32 year-old woman who has been married to a wonderful 8man for almost two years. We've been together for almost six years. Last year my husband gave me a credit card and I racked up $50,000 in debt and put my marriage in jeopardy! We were best friends and did a lot together. Since I went crazy and started shopping with his credit card it has been a tumultuous relationship. I honestly think he hates me. What should I do? I am desperate! I haven thought about so many horrible things to pay him back so we could live in harmony again, I can't take it anymore!