Dear Steve and Shirley,
3 years ago my best friend married what she thought to be the man of her dreams. He was my husbands good friend from college and we introduced them at a cookout. After they dated for a year, My husband informed me that his friend was also dating someone else besides my friend. Being the good friend that I am and feeling guilty for hooking her up with this two-timing dog, I immediately informed her. She brushed it off and said she was already aware of it and that he had ended it with the other female. On their wedding day, my husband informed me that my best friend’s soon-to-be husbands ex was sitting in the church and she was pregnant. I was in utter shock and had no idea how to handle the situation. Not wanting to ruin her day, I kept my mouth shut. Mr. Dog must have spotted her in the pew because he was stuttering and sweating bullets. Luckily she remained quiet and the wedding went on without incident. Every night i am laden with guilt because I know my best friend’s husband is scum and has a secret family she knows nothing about. At this point I feel too much time has past for me to say anything but the more I see him it makes my skin crawl. To add insult to injury, you can clearly see the other female in the wedding video. Was I wrong not to say anything? Is it too late to say anything now?