Dear Steve and Shirley,
I am a 33 year old female and I’m totally in love with my 43 year old boyfriend. He was a player before we started dating, but he stopped all of that for me and I felt special and loved. Shortly after we started dating, I noticed that he replaced being a player, with watching a lot of porn. It didn’t bother me at first, but now he does it as soon as we are done having sex and I leave the room. One day I came home from a quick trip to the store and he had locked me out of our bedroom because he was in there watching porn… and we had just had sex before I left the house. Every time he sleeps on the couch, he watches porn. We work at the same place and he watches it at work… he goes in the bathroom at work for 30 minutes at a time to watch it. The first thing he does when he wakes up in the morning, even if we’ve just had sex, is watch porn! He does it so much now, that he always has scabs on him from all of the rubbing and friction. Lately, we have had several fights about this.
What should I do?