Pregnant Married and Panicking!


Good morning Steve and Shirley, 

I am a married 9 months pregnant female seeking advice about  my current situation.  I have been married to my husband for 5 years and we are expecting what I hope is our first child.  There is a strong possibility that this child may not be my husbands.  For years I have sought the attention of sexual relationships with other men.  Although I do love my husband and we have a great sexual relationship I cannot stop seeking out sexual relationships with other men.  I have sought counseling about my sexual issues but nothing has deterred me from seeking out more sexual partners.  My issue is that I am not sure if I should tell my husband about my addiction more importantly should I tell him that this baby may not be his.  The closer we get to my due date, the more these issues are weighing on my mind.  I am scared he is not going to understand my illness and he will abandon me but I know I can’t keep living this lie.  How do I approach him and make him understand that I am sick and it is nothing to do with him.  I really love him and that is why I am so tormented about this lie I have been living.  

Signed is there any hope left?

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