Good morning Shirley and Steve
I have serious problem I have been married for 4 years now. We have a 3 year old son. Everything has been going well. We both make good money take trips often. She lets me hang with the boys with no problems and vice versa. I spoil my wife all of the time. She gets whatever she wants. I take care of our son, cook, clean while she goes out with her friends, sometimes, every weekend. Here is the problem she stopped having sex with me. I don’t know why. We have tried talking about it. We have even gone to therapy. Nothing works. I am a Christian man so I have prayed about this but nothing has changed. Then I met a breath of fresh air. She is single beautiful friendly and likes to have sex. We started off as friends but the more I opened up to her the more she has received me. Literally. She is wonderful in bed and I never have to want anything with her, sexually. She doesn’t want me to leave my family. She is just helping me out through a rough spot. I don’t even know what to do about my marriage. Having sex with my wife is extremely important. Steve I know you understand what it is like to have sex with your wife. That’s all I want. I don’t want to step out or be with anyone else but I don’t know what to do. I shouldn’t ask if it is wrong to cheat on your wife if she stops giving you some.
The question should be am I justified in cheating?
Listen to the response from Steve and Shirley below: