Hello Shirley and Steve,
I am a 20 year old black woman who comes from a very loving and caring family that carries themselves in a very classy and respectful way. I’ve been taught since I was a little girl that men will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. I am coming to you all because I need help. I can’t find a man that wants to be in serious relationship with me and I know about 90 percent of the blame can be put on me. I have no limits when it comes to sex. I am very sexually active. I have sex with men on first dates, hell even first encounters. I am a very easy woman, 9 times out of 10 I don’t use protection and I have never had an STD but I know it is going to happen one day. Nobody in my family even sees me this way. They know I am not a virgin because of the pregnancy scares. I don’t bring these men to my family to meet them, hell they don’t even stay that long. Most of them are one night stands. I have slept with about 40 men, I have had threesomes. I even let their homeboys have relations with me if they ask and the bad part about it I can’t even tell you why I do it. I am getting older and my parents are asking me when they are going to meet or at least see the men I am dating and I hate lying to them. I am not ugly. I am not an ugly young woman. I am overweight but not huge. I think I have good qualities and I am worth settling down with.
I need help bad.
Can you please give me advice?
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