Dear Steve and Shirley,
I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now and I love her to death.
I feel like I've finally found my soulmate. Whenever we're around each other, you can just feel the love, but there’s one problem! She has a very bad little boy. I have tried not to raise someone else's kid, but dang, her son is bad! He doesn’t listen to anything anyone says to him and he talks back to everybody… from his mama to his grandmama. He walks round the house pointing out what’s all is his and he tells me not to mess with his stuff. If I try to clean up his toys, he says, "That’s my toy." If I try to get something to drink, he says, "That's my cup.” When I'm talking to his mom, he tells me, “That's my mama.” Whenever I talk to my girlfriend about her son, she brushes it off or gets mad. She always says that he doesn't know any better because he’s only 3 years old. But he acts like he is 33! Steve, this little boy even sits on the couch and watches TV with his hand in his pants like a grown man. I need your help. If I leave her because of her son, that would not be right.
If I stay with her, I will have to put up with a kid disrespecting me and that just ain't gon’ happen.
What should I do?
Please help.
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