Dear Steve And Shirley,
I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I love him so much.
I'm 25 and he is 30. He has promised me that one day we will get married, but there are just a few problems that I need to handle first. About a year ago, he lost his job and he took it pretty hard. The first month he wouldn't shower or brush his teeth. I told him that if he didn't shower, I would bust the windows in his car! Needless to say, he showered. I told him that he needs to groom himself so he can feel good about himself. Well, a week after that, I came home and found him wearing my heels while he was cooking dinner. When I asked him why he was wearing my heels, he said he wanted to see how I do it. Just when I thought things couldn't get worse, one night we were about to make love and he was wearing my panties. He said that all of his underwear were dirty. Now he’s been borrowing my clothes all of the time, instead of washing his. He says that wearing my clothes makes him feel closer to me. But I think he wants to be me. He has dyed his hair the same color as mine and tries to talk like me. I love this man, but I don't know what to do.
How should I handle this? Please help.
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