Dear Steve Harvey and Shirley.
Currently I am separated and over 40 can't have any children. Main reason for my divorce anyway. I met a man Mr. Man who was also separated and we became very close. It was great after a year. Mr. Man has his divorce. Once my divorce was final this summer I thought Mr. Man and I would be together. Well Mr. Man told me that he was going to New Jersey to get his ex girlfriend the woman he should have married instead of his wife. I had to ask what about me. He said I'm a beautiful woman but I had three problems. Number one I am too emotional. I cry at the drop of a dime. Number two. Real women are a mystery once that's gone. Nothing is left. I'm an open book. Number three the big one I should not have for I should not have fallen in love with a married man him. I missed all the signs of this rejection. I try to be open and honest with this man. Of course the sex was good but I am truly hurt. So as I watch him take his ex girlfriend on a romantic weekend to the Poconos mountains this weekend. Last night I had my brown liquor my brown liquor song Anita Baker. No more tears and cried myself to sleep. I should have known better and controlled my feelings at 40. So I'll say it's my fault. I am not perfect now I am out of two men in one year at 40.
I pray that God heals my heart and my mind.
Childless manless clueless and hung over 40.