Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a mother of three boys and I just got remarried less than two years ago. I have a 13-year-old son and an eight-year-old son from my first marriage. My new husband and I have a seven-month-old son and I had some complications after the baby. I really haven't been able to give my husband what he's used to in the bedroom so I take care of his needs in other ways. He and I always have had great chemistry in the bedroom and we do all of the things that are necessary to keep the sparks flying between the sheets.
Before we got married, one of my old friends joined us at a hotel for an amazing experience. My husband said he had to film it since I told him it was a once-in-a-lifetime experience. I had no idea that he still had the video until my 13-year-old son asked me about it. I had a follow-up appointment with my doctor and I had to take my eight-year-old with me. It was a long wait time so I let him watch videos on my phone. I went to the back to be seen by the doctor, then my son and I left. I wasn't even thinking about my phone because I was ready to pick up my baby from my sister's house and go home.
When I got home, my 13-year-old said there was a sad video with me, his stepdad, and a woman on it. I could feel my heart racing as I asked him to show me the video. It was the threesome video and he said his brother sent it to him while I was at the doctor's office. My husband's silly and had texted it to me as a joke, saying he can't wait to make me holler like that again. He didn't know my son had my phone. I was so ashamed. What do I tell my son? Should I be honest or act like it's nothing?