Dear Steve and Shirley,
My boyfriend and I are on shaky ground because he thinks I'm cheating. He's the one whose phone rings all night long, so why is he so paranoid about me? Whenever I go out without him, he calls me repeatedly. He'll even ask me to FaceTime him so he can see where I am. He thinks he's slick, but it makes me think he could be cheating on me.
The thing is, I do not care because if he is, it will come out eventually. He's suspicious about everything I do, and now he's questioning me before, during, and after sex. The last time I saw him, it was late, and I was about to go to bed. He asked why I didn't take a shower with him, and I told him he's always welcome to join me. He said I was hiding my body from him, so I got naked in front of him to shut him up. Then I kissed him on the neck, and he said I've never kissed him in that spot before. He asked me who taught me to do that.
I almost told him I was leaving right then and there, but I stayed. During our intimate moment, he stopped to ask me if I would ever give myself to anyone else. I was so thrown off, and it ruined the moment. We got back into the swing of things, and he asked if I was his for the rest of our lives. I told him I was just trying to get through what we were doing at the moment. He got mad, got up, and went to the bathroom. I was dressed and heading out when he came out of the bathroom. He asked if I was going home or to another guy's house.
I ignored him. He texted me to see if I made it home, and I ignored him. He tried to FaceTime me, and I ignored him. I haven't texted or talked to him in three days. What's with all the questions?