A 96-year-old grandmother is making social media laugh after sharing her very specific funeral instructions on TikTok.
The woman, affectionately known online as “Ms. Lil,” posted a video laying out the three rules people must follow when she passes away.
Her first rule was simple: “Cry, but not too much.” Ms. Lil said she understands people will be emotional, but she does not want anyone “making a fool of themselves.”
Her second rule involved banning certain people from attending altogether. She specifically named her former friend Bertha, accusing her of trying to flirt with her husband years ago.
Finally, Ms. Lil told loved ones to celebrate her life properly by having drinks and enjoying themselves after the service.
The video quickly went viral because of her honesty, humor, and strong personality. Many people online praised her for turning a difficult topic into something lighthearted and real.
Others said her rules reflected how more families are moving toward celebrations of life instead of traditional mourning.
No matter how people choose to say goodbye, Ms. Lil made one thing very clear: she wants her funeral to have love, laughter, and no unnecessary drama.